Saturday, May 08, 2010

Communicate with love

So many of you love humanity dear ones. You may feel disillusioned at times, tired, frustrated, but we in the heavens understand that this comes from a deep love of human hearts, and a deep desire to have the world feel and know God's love. You wouldn't be frustrated with others if you didn't care. You wouldn't be disillusioned if you didn't want more for the world. You wouldn't be upset with others if you didn't see a greater light inside of them. And so, when you find yourself in these spaces, first of all take a breath and acknowledge that no matter what it looks like on the surface, deep down you LOVE. You CARE. You want more for the world. From this space dear ones - from a space of love, kindness, compassion, and allowance - you can create a deeper and more meaningful relationships, first with yourself, then with the world around you.

Accept yourself no matter what. If you are upset or frustrated or disillusioned with another allow yourself your own feelings. Look at them. Then look beneath them. You want more for yourself. You want more for and from the other. But dear ones you cannot ever change another. You can only communicate your heart and then must allow them to make their own choices. You can either stay or walk away or choose not to let them bother you, but to continue to try to change someone who does not want to change is a waste of your light and time. You have heard the quote... "Do not cast your pearls before swine." While every soul is precious to us for we see their light, we ask you to share your gifts, wisdom and talents with those who can value them, honor them, and use them. Do not force your gifts and wisdom on those who don't want it.

In a very practical light this means that you can offer advice, but with permission. You can share your viewpoints but with respect for the fact that another may or may not agree. And it means that although you might be angry or frustrated, better to vent that in the privacy of your own home or journal and then to find what you really want to say, with love and compassion, that lies beneath the upset. "I would love it if you would speak to me more kindly." "I feel you are not listening to me." "I am frustrated because I care about you so much but you do not seem to care about yourself so I must release you to your own path and lessons." The list goes on... there are so many ways to communicate with love. And if you are stuck and stymied, pray for the right words at the right time for God loves to help you drop into your hearts and speak from that space.

Dear ones, when you do communicate with another, be careful. Your intention should only be to express your love, your views, your compassion, and your wisdom... not to manipulate the other into changing or understanding you! This is so human and yet it only leads to more frustration - if you are attached to another changing as a result of your words, you risk more frustration. If you simply allow them their own response, then you can make a clear decision. Either you want to continue being around this person or not. Either you want to continue the dance you've been dancing or not. This keeps YOU dear ones in a space of responsibility for your own well-being rather than giving that power to another.

We understand that human relationships can bring both the heights of love and the depths of despair, but if you keep this in mind, you will navigate your lessons with greater ease. All relationships start with the relationship you have with yourself. If you are comfortable with who you are, what you believe, and how you think, and if you can get in touch with the love in your hearts, then dear friends, you have mastered the relationship with yourself and you will see that you attract who belongs in your life and repel those who do not. Give thanks! Not everyone was intended to get along on this earth walk, however, you were all designed with the capacity to co-exist in love.

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